Wednesday, July 02, 2008
Long time no see
Was supposed to go camping this weekend, but events and children's social lifes are conspiring against us. I've travelled up to London with Sally a couple of times this week. Its always good to catch up with her and chew the fat. I lent her my Civil War DVDs. She is so happy! I've known her what? 23 years. I never knew how much she loved history!
Ty is back from Oz but for how long?
Jaina is leaving Kaz' team at work. She's great. A sassy Geordie woman. Fantastic sense of humour. I know Kaz will really miss her at work.
Spring/summer has arrived with a vengence in Sheepcote Valley. The teasel, the nettles and flowers have literally burst into life. I am always amazed by it. I can understand why ancient people reverred the sun and nature.
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Porthcawl
At the end of April the family, minus Jo, plus Liam Pitt and Louie went on holiday to a little holiday park in Porthcawl, South Wales. It was good to get away for a few days- even to this "Haven" type site. And before you start, I haven't got anything against Havens! Our holidays, when the kids were young, were always at Havens- the "Tiger Club", in house entertainment teams and family rooms where you had to get in early to get a decent seat! Now the kids are older, I thought we'd moved on... Obviously not!
The site was even selling mobile homes- some were very nicely done...the only alarming thing was Kaz saying we should sell the house, "when the kids leave" (WHEN THE KIDS LEAVE???? AS IF!!!!) and move into one of these! I had images of me having to sell or dump all my books. I came out in a cold sweat and felt sick!
Wales. How beautiful is Wales? I was entranced. A couple of days into the holiday we managed to drag the kids to Three Cliff Bay. Truly wonderful despite the wind coming off the sea. The beach was unspoilt, golden sand and hardly a soul there. This was my favourite part of the holiday.
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Forest School Experience
On Tuesday I went off for three days to the Brecon Beacon area of South Wales to do a practical assessment for the Forest School course I'm currently completing. A local volunteer with Sussex Wildlife Trust- Renzo, kindly gave me a lift. We had a really pleasant journey down and it turned out we had a lot in common. We knew some mutual people and had been at college at Sussex and Brighton at the same time so that was cool.
We saw several Red Kites as we drove into Wales as well as Buzzards- Renzo is a bit of a twitter so something else we shared!
We got to the youth hostel at Llanddeusant at about 3-4 pm. Others soon arrived. They were almost entirely from Renzo's 5 day intensive course. They were all, except one,pre-school women workers. I felt a bit reserved, clearly Renzo knew them but I didn't. After everyone had settled in we went for a meal in a village about 5 miles (?) away. After the meal we all went back to the hostel and went to bed because we had an early start.
Wednesday we got up and departed for the wood. The day was pretty full on. We had to make shelters- but these weren't the normal lean to versions I had learned at the Woodcraft School. These involved driving uprights into the ground with pole drivers. These shelters weren't coming down in a hurry! Most of the day was taken up with making these shelters and felling trees. Towards the end of the day we had to build our own fires and cook on them.
I was working with two women called Mary and Monica. Mary was older but was game and put 100% effort and got a bit frosty if she felt she was being patronised... hopefully it wasn't me that did that. Monica was an interesting German woman with a lot of camping experience. I think we got on pretty well. The idea was to sleep in the shelters that evening. Monica and mary slept in ours- I put up a hammock and basha and slept there instead. I realised part way through the day that I had lost the mini digital video camera- it played on my mind all day. After dinner, some of the woman went back to the hostel and I went with Dez back with them. A nice guy at the hostel had found my camera and handed it in.
The following day was Burma rope bridge building and underground cooking. Before I knew it the time to depart was here and we set off back to Brighton. I passed the assessment, which was cool! Now only two other things to do and I'm finished...and hopefully qualified.
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Dosing down in transit accomodation
Monday, January 28, 2008
On the final straight
Billings, Wal-Mart and Indian Tacos
Bored and pissed off in the land of my dreams
I woke up in a bad mood this morning. A brooding cloak was thrown over me as I slept and I couldn't shake it. Emma had come back to her house and just gone back out to the Sun dance without calling in. It felt like we were inconvenient guests that she wanted to go away. So 7 of the delegation sat and twiddled our thumbs. I didn't fly these kids across the Atlantic to sit in a trailer watching shite TV!
I realised that by hook or by crook I had to ensure the Billings trip comes off. All I could think about was that I could be in Brighton at Gay Pride, drinking, eating and hanging out with friends. This did not improve my mood. But to be fair, the kids just got on with it and made the best of it. I was really impressed and proud of them.
Monday 6th August
I was still wound up this morning. So I bagged the rubbish and took it over to the dumpster. I then went into the club and accessed my email. Emma was there and I decided I couldn't let this go on. But it was a delicate situation. I felt frustrated and a bit angry. So I asked Emma what was happening today, and that leaving teenagers to fester in a trailer on a Rez with nothing to do was a recipe for disaster. Emma looked embarrassed and explained she had been left to organise the delegation, make federal funding bids and do funding reports. She was even paying for food etc for us from her own pocket.
My anger vanished immediately and I told her it was out of the question that she paid for food etc herself. I said either this is, or it is not a delegation, and it was the club that should pay. She spread her hands in helplessness and admitted the club had no money. I told her we had contingency money and we'd sort ourselves out. She looked so relieved I realised that this had obviously been playing on her mind.
In the afternoon we all piled into the minibus and headed out to the back country. Emma had been a fire fighter and knew the back country well. We drove along a rutted track through wooded areas recently burnt down by forest fire and arrived at a trail that ended high on a mountain side and looked down to the Tongue River, which forms one boundary of the Rez. Then Emma drove us back toward Morning Star View where we picked buckets of Choke Cherries for the elders- who Emma said loved them, and reminded them of their childhoods. Then we headed further into the back country to a large fire watchers tower. There were spectacular views from its ricketty platform.
We headed back to Lame Deer through all sorts of paths that appear to be unmapped. In the end we reappeared on the Highway near Jim Town- the bar on the Rez' boundary that drinkers use- coz Lame Deer is "Dry" ie it is illegal to drink alcohol on the Rez. We got back quite late, watched a DVD and went to bed.
Today was a much better day.
Sunday, January 20, 2008
I was up at 7am again this morning. Nicky was already out running. I made tea and climbed the hill behind the trailer. The air was still and cool in the early morning. Lame Deer, lay like a teenager, underneath its duvet of sleepiness. Dogs barked and the odd car crawled along Cheyenne Avenue. I sat a while drinking it all in. Finally I walked down the hill and over to the club.
We went to Ashland in the afternoon and visited the museum , church, replica of the first Missionary School on the site and the modern High School. The wooden log cabin of the last century contrasted starkly with the school that's used today. The school staff were busy preparing the buildings for the return of the students. The smell of floor polish was overwhelming. On the walls were framed photos of the various years graduates, back as far as the 1940/50s. Each face telling a story of hope or expectation- it was looking at a physical expression of Blake's songs of innocence and experience.
News arrived that Deshanda had gone into labour (and I couldn't help remembering leading our first exchange to Lame Deer and meeting Deshanda as a 13 year old) and Emma will be a great grand mother! Emma quipped that all she needed now was a great grandpa!
Emma told me the story of Kino- the fruit machine at the casino. Her grand children would ask where she was going, and she'd tell them she was off to visit Kino. After a while they said to her, "Grandma, we don't like you going out with Kino. Everytime you go out with him, he takes all your money!" They thought Kino was her boyfriend!
The arrow I made was hoisted onto the sundance lodgepole and Emma says that the dancers were really pleased with it.
We didn't see Emma tonight as she was visiting Dee in the hospital. So we cooked nachos and watched "Little Miss Sunshine". I talked to George on the telephone tonight.
Thurs 2nd Aug
I woke up early again thinking of home and the last time I was here. How different everything is this time.
Otis looks like he's been bitten by a Wolf spider and has a large painfully red blotch on his arm. We went over to St Labre again today and I took the opportunity to buy some books. While I was at the shops with Nicky, Kaz rang Cassie and lost the opportunity to speak to her.
As I walked back from the shop a couple of horses meandered across the highway as casual as you like. Everyone is excited and looking forward to going to Rocky Boys Rez in the north of Montana visiting George.
Hang in out in Lame Deer
Woke up before 7am. Given this trip counts as a "holiday" in Kaz's eyes I coukdn't believe I was up so early. Nicky was obviously feeling the same because she was out running! We got up and I pushed the group over to the Club for breakfast. Things have changed since last time we were here. The computer suite has ceased to exist, so I had to use a PC in the office to email Kaz. In the afternoon we were loaded onto an American school bus and went to Ashland. The Catholic school of St Labre is there and has a swimming pool.
On the way there we arrived too early so the bus driver headed off along a road. Before I knew it I was staring down at an Amish settlement.
A young girl had taken a shine to Issak. He wasn't impressed, so naturally he was wound up by the group about it! The Venturers enjoyed the swimming and the chance to cool down. As I stood outside the Swimming pool building a pony meandered along and started to eat grass along the sides of the pavement.
Liam Pitt found marshmellow spread and Peter thought he'd died and gone to heaven. As we pulled up by our trailer Rick arrived and invited us to his house one evening next week. Sharing with the Christian boys was an experience. They had tried to be helpful by drying our clothes in the dryer on full heat... Nicky freaked out! The rest of the night was pretty quiet.
I was awake again before 7am. The group had breakfast at the club again. The trailer was looking like a bomb had hit it. I made the Venturers clear it up. You could hear their protests all the way over in Billings! The activity was swimming again. Some Venturers stayed at the club and roller bladed instead. Emma had askedNicky to make an arrow for the Sun Dance. But at the last moment she was told that she couldn't- being a woman, The actual Sun Dance is a very male ceremony. So I had to make the arrow. I didn't do a bad job considering the arrowhead was only ornamental and split the arrow shaft. In the evening we cooked for ourselves in the trailer. Katie ate like she had hollow legs! The group was starting to jell together. Latter with no activity planned we hired two DVDs- "23" and "Little Miss Sunshine". Everyone laughed at the end of LMS and felt pretty good.
The club is undergoing one of its periodic financial crisis. There were scarcely any workers employed at the club and the teenage programme has suffered.
Friday, December 21, 2007
Montana- further details
The site is dotted all over with white markers. These point to the places that the bodies of 7th Cavalry troopers were found. Again only in the last couple of years have the Park Authorities put down markers in the same was for Native Americans who fell defending their village. Symbolically they are in red stone. I was shocked to discover a little way off one of these markers near the road another new marker. It was for all the 7th cavalry horses that fell in the battle. It was as if the Authorities spitefully added this and I couldn't help feeling it was a snub to the tribes that had lobbied for so long for recognition of the battle from their perspective.
After the visit we drove across the highway to "The Trading Post"- a kind of shop selling books, jewelery, t shirts etc. The Venturers spent some time there looking for gifts for home. I found a postcard allegedly of Crazy Horse- although it is said no one ever managed to take his photograph.
We went back to Lame Deer via Harden because there was a forest fire. We had to stop at a supermarket. Latter some of us went to help set up a Sun Dance site at Emma's request. We drove towards Birney and then pulled of the main road, across bumpy rutted tracks, We entered a wood and slowly made our way through the magically landscape to the site. We helped put up some tents and then sat around while Emma "visited" with her friend Shirley. We returned to the trailer about midnight. As we were returning to Lame Deer the sun was setting, it was a huge ball of orange fire in the sky, so clear you could almost reach out and grasp it. The moon soon came up and caste its silver glow across the rez picking out the trees and hills, a timeless vista that remembered the old ways when the people were free to roam and lived their life without recourse to the white man.